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Digital Detox: Why Unplugging Can Make You Happier and More Productive
Struggling to unplug? A simple digital detox can boost calm and focus. Try screen breaks, tech-free spaces, and mindful unplugging.
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Mar 11, 20253 min read


What is a Gentle Soul?
At some point in my life, I started noticing a pattern of behaviors, beliefs, and traits that I shared with certain people. Over time, I...
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Feb 25, 20253 min read


Love, Cults, and Self-Worth: My Journey to a Healthy Relationship
In 2007, my now husband (then fiancé) and I celebrated our first Valentine’s Day. I wrote (probably) my worst song ever. It was called...
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Feb 13, 20254 min read


Calming Your Nervous System: Don’t Give Them What They Don’t Deserve
Well, folks, 2025 is already a firehose of bad news. So, I am returning to a message that I posted in November on my website’s blog. The...
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Jan 23, 20252 min read


My Review of Cult Trip by Anke Richter—A Must-Read on Vulnerability, Influence, and Resilience
I've read too many books about cults, narcissistic abuse, con artists, and other selfish pathologies: memoirs, recovery guides, academic...
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Jan 13, 20253 min read


Gentle Souls, Trust Yourself: A New Year’s Resolution for Calm, Clarity, and Energy
A New Year's Resolution for Gentle Souls
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Dec 30, 20242 min read


Mastering Holiday Survival: The 'Less is More' Strategy for Gentle Souls
Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash Dear Gentle Souls, It is the time of year to re-address holiday survival strategies. Primarily, the Less is More tactic . Employ this strategy when you need to shut down an antagonistic provocateur. I share the following story with my clients to demonstrate how less response can lead to more freedom from drama for you. The Conference Story Once upon a time, 2018, I was listening to a clinician present at conference. He finished his talk, the
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Dec 6, 20242 min read


Protecting Your Gentle Soul: How to Stay Resilient in a Harsh World
Here’s something that I’ve been pondering lately as news and politics look increasingly bleak and brutal. How do we maintain our faith in...
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Nov 14, 20243 min read


GSR takes a break: Burnout/Overload/Politics and Social Media
In October I planned to reflect on the Reclaiming Autonomy Writing Symposium . I didn’t. Something in me stepped in front of ALL social...
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Nov 4, 20243 min read


Zoom Event: The Writing Symposium, 9/28, 1PM-4PM. Reclaiming voice, life, and self through writing and creative expression
Zoom Event: The Writing Symposium. Reclaiming voice, life, and self through writing and creative expression.
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Sep 13, 20242 min read


A Well-Trained Wife by Tia Levings: Infuriating, Hopeful
I just finished listening to this beautifully written memoir on Audible. It depicts the not-so Christian underbelly of the extreme...
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Sep 6, 20242 min read


Take Back Your Time—Holiday Weekends
About time, YOUR time, and the revolution of taking it back. Happy Labor Day weekend! I’m enjoying what feels like...
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Aug 30, 20242 min read


The Betrayal Trauma of 7M: "Church", entertainment "management", cult
I recently caved & watched the Netflix docu-series, Dancing for the Devil: The 7M TikTok Cult . I figured, it's about a Tik Tok thing....
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Aug 12, 20242 min read


Anti-Cult Tools, Tricks and Tips from the ICSA Conference
Early this month I went to Barcelona, Spain to present at the International Cultic Studies Association (ICSA) Conference . Near the end...
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Jul 22, 20243 min read


Sorry, Not Sorry--Some People Don't Deserve You
Last October, A Little Bit Culty , hosts Sarah Edmondson and Anthony "Nippy" Ames spoke with me about my culty misadventure in "School"...
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Jun 14, 20243 min read


A conversation with A Little Bit Culty & a head's up about Living Cult Free!
Hi Everyone, It's been a minute but this podcast is now live! Click Gentle Souls: Esther Friedman on 'School' to listen. I'm going to...
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Feb 14, 20242 min read


Audiobook Available; ALBC Podcast & Culty TedTalk!
1) The Gentle Souls Revolution audiobook is now available: Libro.FM ; Storytel ; NOOK Audiobooks & Chirp . Thank you, Kim Niemi &...
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Nov 2, 20231 min read


NEWS: Book Release Party/Concert; Review; Latest Pod!
Hey Everyone, A few things... 1) Live in the Boston area? If yes, please celeb rate with me and my fellow authors at a book-release party...
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Oct 5, 20231 min read


Book Release & Concert, Latest Podcast, Book Review!
Hi Everyone, Thanks all, for supporting the crowdfund! Thanks, to generous contributors who chose to send me $$$ directly, we did make...
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Sep 29, 20231 min read


Audiobook News; Documentary; Songwriting Interview & Book Release Save the Date!
Hi Gentle Souls – The audiobook files for our Revolution are complete, YAY! Once it's paid for, it's available. Here's the funding...
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Sep 13, 20232 min read
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